The Waiting Place

Homily for school children for the Wednesday of the First Week of Advent

I really don't like waiting, do you? I don't like it, but it seems like I do so much of it. What are some examples of where you have to wait?........

Dr. Seuss talks about waiting. Who likes Dr. Seuss?....One of my favorite Dr. Seuss books is called “Oh, the Places You’ll Go” and it’s about all the places that you can go to – but there are some dangers, too! In the story he talks about what happens when you might get confused and then end up in a place called “The Waiting Place”. He describes it as a useless place where people are just waiting.

[From “Oh, the Places You’ll Go”]:

“The Waiting Place…for people just waiting.

            Waiting for a train to do

            or a bus to come, or a plane to go

            or the mail to come, or the rain to go

            or the phone to ring, or the snow to snow

            or waiting around for a Yes or No

            or waiting for their hair to grow.

            Everyone is just waiting.

            Waiting for the fish to bite

            or waiting for wind to fly a kite

            or waiting around for Friday night

            or waiting, perhaps, for their Uncle Jake

            or a pot to boil, or a Better Break

            or a string of pearls, or a pair of pants

            or a wig with curls, or Another Chance.

            Everyone is just waiting.

We all have to spend some time in this "waiting place" that Dr. Seuss talks about, but I don't think it has to be a useless place. While we are waiting we can make good use of our time. What can we do? Well, we could read a good book or call a friend on the phone. We could make a list of things we need to do today or, we could even study for a Math test. Well, maybe that's going a bit too far, but there are many things we can do besides just waiting.

And that’s the lesson of Advent. Advent means "to come." Do you know what's coming? Of course, Christmas is coming. This is an exciting time, but it may also be a difficult time of waiting -- waiting for the day when you can open the gifts that you see under the tree. What can we do to make this time of waiting for Christmas more than just a useless time in the waiting place? Well, we can think about the true meaning of Christmas. We can think about Jesus and his love. We can think about giving instead of receiving. We can enjoy all of the beautiful music and the decorations of the season like the Advent wreath or setting up the Nativity in our homes. When we do those things, we will find joy in the waiting place.

We can also do what Jesus did in the Gospel. You heard that Jesus helped people by curing their illnesses and feeding them when they were hungry. We can also make use of our time while we are waiting by helping the people around us like Jesus did. We can be kind to them, we can do good things for people who have less than we do, and we can always pray for everyone who is hurting or sad.

We are waiting for Christmas, but what should we do while we are waiting? We should worship and praise God, love and serve God, and share God’s love with others. When we are doing those things, we will be ready for Christmas, and more importantly, we’ll be ready for Jesus to come into our hearts. Then we will really find joy in the waiting place.

Homily for the 20th Sunday in Ordinary Time - Cycle B

Readings:

1st Reading:       Proverbs 9:1-6
Psalm:                Psalm 34:2-7
2nd Reading:      Ephesians 5:15-20
Gospel:               John 6:51-58

     Don’t you think we just about have an obsession with food in this country? For one thing, we are really concerned about what goes into our food, including additives, and dyes and preservatives. Plus we have at least two cable TV channels devoted to food and cooking. Not to mention the commercials for all kinds of food and restaurants. And people are always posting on Facebook where they are eating and what they are having.

     Over the last four weeks we have been listening to the sixth chapter of the Gospel of John – and each week we have heard another aspect of Jesus as the Bread of Life, beginning with him feeding the five thousand plus, and continuing to today when he says that we must eat his body and drink his blood in order to have life.

     This feeding and eating theme obviously has overtones about the Eucharist and Mass– and I wonder what effect our cultural images of eating have on our approach to the Eucharist. What is it that you expect to find when you come to this table?

     Maybe some of us come to the Eucharist only wanting a snack – you know, you don’t want to fill up too much so you can save room for other important things. You don’t really want to think too heavily about anything – it will just be too much to digest.

     Maybe some come to Mass like it’s a fast-food restaurant. We come in as late as we can, we leave as soon as we can, and we don’t see any real substance or enjoyment of the food while we’re here – we just want to kind of “get it over with”. Oh, and if they could find a way to have a drive-through feature, that would be GREAT!

     Or maybe some look at Sunday Mass like it’s a Chinese buffet. We really appreciate all the interesting things in front of us, but we really don’t like all of them. We like to have a lot choice, but we really want to pick and choose what we eat. We might like a lot of spiritual stories, but if someone starts talking about abortion, we’d rather just leave that off of our plate. Or we might really like the prayers and the songs, but if we are called to feed the poor, it’s really kind of distasteful.

     It might be that some people think of the Mass like they are having a private, intimate dinner with their friend, Jesus. No one else really counts as long as they have their time with him and can have a nice one-on-one visit with him.

     Perhaps some see the Eucharist like a family meal where we’re all gathered around the table sharing our common experiences, our hopes and our fears, our challenges and our aspirations. And each of us has brought something to share and pass around, and as we are together we strengthen the bonds of the family and our own understanding of who we are and why we are here.

     Some might see the Eucharist like a banquet – the kind that Woman Wisdom is throwing in the first reading. It is a grand event where all are invited and we are sure to have rich foods and fine wine, and we are not expected to bring anything other than ourselves. It is a feast that becomes a significant event in our relationship with God and with one another. We come as guests but we leave as friends – with Jesus as a part of us and we as a part of him.

     So which is it for you? Like Woman Wisdom, Jesus invites us to his feast, to this table, to share in his wisdom and his very life – so that he can remain in us and we can remain in him. And by being a part of him we become him for others – ready to serve, to give of ourselves to our brothers and sisters for the life of the world.

     Jesus invites us all to this table. What kind of meal do you expect when you come here?

Homily for the Seventeenth Sunday in Ordinary Time - B

     Readings:

Reading 1:                     2 KinGS 4:42-44

Responsorial Psalm:     PSalm 145:10-11, 15-16, 17-18

Reading 2:                     EPHesians 4:1-6

Gospel:                          JohN 6:1-15

     What do you think happened to that boy? You know, the boy with the basket that had the loaves and the fishes? He disappears out of the picture once his loaves and fish are multiplied and used to feed over five thousand people. What do you think happened to him after this?

     Putting yourself as one of the characters in the Gospel story, or imagining other aspects of the story that are not told is one way to pray with Scripture – it sometimes provides deeper insights into familiar people and scenes. So what do you think happened to him? What do you think the rest of his life might have been like?

     Chances are he told everyone he saw for quite a while about what he had witnessed on that grass-covered hill – that Jesus had fed thousands with just a few loaves that he had had in his basket. And I can imagine that he spoke with some surprise, at least, that he had had a role in that miraculous event. I wonder how he was received – apathy? Skepticism? Ridicule?

     I can imagine that this experience had a deep and profound impact on him – and I like to think that maybe after what he witnessed he became a very generous person, a person who became very giving and selfless – that he did for others what he had seen Jesus do for the crowd.

     And I wonder why he had that basket of loaves and fishes – maybe he was on his way from the market or a family member’s house. Five loaves and two fishes were probably enough to feed his entire family for a week. But he gave it up willingly – all that he had - when asked by Jesus.  When they gathered up the fragments, I wonder if he got his basket refilled. We don’t know what happened to the twelve baskets that were gathered up. Maybe he got even more than the five loaves and two fish that he had originally.

     His experience of Jesus was probably a life-changing event. He was a different person after seeing what compassion, generosity, and the power of Jesus do when put together.

     What about you?

     You are here at this table to celebrate and remember a miracle – not just of the transformation of bread and wine into the very Body and Blood of Jesus- but Jesus offering his own life to save us. Because you have witnessed it, do you go out to tell others? Or is it something you keep to yourself?

You are here at this table to celebrate and remember the gracious generosity of God and how extravagantly God has provided for us with everything we need to grow and to thrive. Has it made you a more generous person? Have you become more selfless and giving? Do you look for ways to do for others what Jesus had done for the crowd?

     You are here at this table to celebrate and remember how Jesus took what appeared to be so little and miraculously used it to create a community, a feast, an icon of the Kingdom of God. Do you willingly give what you have and who you are to Jesus, knowing that he can take your gifts and use them to help bring about the Kingdom?

I do wonder what happened to that little boy because of his encounter with Jesus.

What happens to you?

Whose Shepherd Are You?

Homily for Fourth Sunday of Easter - B

"Good Shepherd Sunday" 2015         

         What a comforting image our Gospel gives us today. It is probably a familiar one to you – Jesus the Good Shepherd. There are so many images in art and music of Jesus holding a lamb, or carrying a sheep on his shoulders. Jesus – the shepherd who lays down his life for his sheep, the Lord who is our shepherd, who invites us to the table he spreads before us. And these young people will make their way to the banquet table of the Good Shepherd this afternoon/morning as they make their first communion. It truly is a comforting and engaging image for us.

            But sometimes we have heard this Gospel and thought about this image without allowing ourselves to be challenged by it. Because Jesus is the Good Shepherd for his sacrificial and self-giving love. He is the shepherd who is “good” not because he does his job well, but because he is the shepherd who is noble, who is righteous, who is willing to lay down his life for his sheep – not like the hired hand who abandons the sheep when he has to look out for number one. Jesus is the Good Shepherd because he is the model for us. And so that causes us to ask ourselves a question: Whose shepherd are you?

            Being a disciple means following the model of Jesus – and so we are called to love others as Christ has loved us and loved the whole world.  We are called to live and to love sacrificially. Whose shepherd are you? For whom do you lay down your life? For whom do you sacrifice, and whom do you protect and watch out for?

            In our first reading, Peter and John healed the crippled man at the Temple gate rather than walk by. They recognized that he must be treated with dignity – regardless of the lack of benefits the world would give. We must also lay down our lives – and our pursuit of success by the world’s standards – on behalf of those most in need of love and most in need of our care. Whose shepherd are you?

            Some of us have our task presented clearly in front of us. Some of us care for a parent or a spouse who needs constant care, or is dealing with a debilitating illness like Alzheimer’s, or ALS or MS. Some of us care for sick children, or elderly relatives. But many of us have opportunities to reach out in love and care for those around us – but don’t. Whose shepherd are you?

            We are called to as a series of concentric circles of concern. The small circle is the immediate family and those who are right around us. The next circle is our extended family, then our neighborhood, our city or town, our nation, and the rest of the world. We should be challenged to constantly push ourselves to the next circle of concern, expanding our care and love in ever wider circles.

            In a beautiful document by our Bishops titled “Communities of Salt and Light”, they note that every disciple and every Catholic community are called to be “salt of the earth and light of the world”, and that the pursuit of justice and peace is an essential part of what makes a parish Catholic.

            In our parish, we have a new organization named for that document, called Salt & Light Ministry, which arose out of the inspiration of the parishioners who went through the Good News People program. The Salt & Light ministry is intended to coordinate the social outreach activities of the parish and to offer our parishioners opportunities to step into the next circle of concern. At the end of Mass you will hear from one of our parishioners about a ministry that they participate in, and they will extend an invitation to you to join them.

            Jesus the Good Shepherd has given us the model of self-giving, self-sacrificing love, and that model challenges us to step out in love into circles of concern around us to help our brothers and sisters. How far are you willing to go? Whose shepherd are you?